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Press Pause And Get Inspired, Refreshed, And Centered

December 20, 2012 By Sydney 14 Comments


December is one crazy month! In times like this when things can just get crazy busy, I like to press pause and get inspired, refreshed, and centered. One of my favorite ways of doing that is reading quotes, reviewing my goals, and reminding myself to take a step back and remember the big picture and to be thankful for all the things I have.

Now that I’ve gotten all my gift shopping and holiday cards done, I’m feeling excited about the upcoming weeks and the New year. I’ve been working like a crazy woman and November was one of the fastest months for me all year. December isn’t far behind, especially since I’ve been traveling again, but I’m trying hard on not getting caught up in all the frenzy. I’m sure a lot of you are busy as well right now getting ready for the holidays, finishing up open enrollment, keeping your fingers crossed on a promotion, or getting up the courage to ask for a raise or switching careers in the New Year.

Simplify And Avoid Ending The Year Stressed And Unhappy

December should be a happy time when we look forward to spending time with loved ones and get inspired about the upcoming New Year. And it’s sad when the holidays turn into stress and anxiety. I used to spend so much time and money shopping for gifts and getting stressed not knowing if the person receiving them would like and actually enjoy the presents. Nowadays I try to keep things as simple as possible and only buy a few small gifts for my closest family members.

After talking to my parents, I learned that they find photos and gift cards the most fun and helpful presents, so that makes my life easy now! I also stopped exchange gifts with friends, so that saves me a lot of money and time too. I’d much rather spend time hanging out with them anyway instead of running around shopping.

Let Go And Look Beyond The Allure Of Material Things

December is such a big shopping month though and it’s easy to start wanting more, more, and more things for ourselves as we shop for others. But getting caught up in material things isn’t good for the soul or your budget. Before you go out and get tempted with all the sales and shiny new things in the stores, look around your home at all the things you already have.

Is your closet overflowing? Can you even fit your car in your garage? Spend some time organizing and donating things to charity and you’ll probably realize you already have way too much stuff.

Think about giving your time instead of material things as well. My mom loves it when I give her “gifts” of fixing, cleaning, and organizing things around her house. Spending time with her and helping her out doing things she physically can’t or doesn’t know how to do means so much more to her than a new sweater or a pair of earrings.

Reflect And Get Inspired With Quotes That Make You Smile, Nod, And Go Hmm!

I love reading quotes and mulling over their meaning. It doesn’t really matter to me who said them, there’s just something wonderful and refreshing about quotes in their simplicity, wisdom, and philosophy. They help me get inspired, clear my head, and lower my stress levels. Here are some quotes that I read recently that helped me feel refreshed and re-centered.

The most important things in life aren’t things – Anthony J D’Angelo

In school, you’re taught a lesson and then given a test. In life, you’re given a test that teaches you a lesson. – Tom Bodett

The future does not belong to those who are content with today…timid and fearful in the face of bold projects and new ideas. – Robert F Kennedy

Idleness is not doing nothing. Idleness is being free to do anything.  – Floyd Dell

Begin to see yourself as a soul with a body rather than a body with a soul. – Wayne Dyer

The cure for anything is salt water – sweat, tears, or the sea.  – Isak Dinesen

The price one pays for pursuing any profession or calling is an intimate knowledge of its ugly side. – James Baldwin

Music is the only language in which you cannot say a mean or sarcastic thing – John Erskine

Opportunity is missed by most people because it is dressed in overalls and looks like work. – Thomas Edison

If you live to be one hundred, you’ve got it made. Very few people die past that age.  – George Burns

There will come a time when you believe everything is finished.  That will be the beginning. – Louis L’Amour

For every minute you are angry you lose sixty seconds of happiness.  – Ralph Waldo Emerson

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Untemplaters, are you feeling stressed and anxious about the holidays and year end? What do you do to get inspired and refreshed? Do you have a favorite quote?

 

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About Sydney

Hi there, I’m Sydney! After ten crazy years, I left a grueling six-figure job in 2015 for a better life. Now I spend my days with my family, writing, freelancing in various capacities, and finding new ways to stretch my brain. I’m crazy about my husband and two kids, gardening, photography, hiking, and stopping to smell the roses. Untemplater is where I share my insights and adventures with the world. I'm continually motivated to write and evolve in hopes that I can help others improve their lifestyles, careers, wealth and happiness. Every day is a gift! Be sure to check out my how to start a blog and Untemplater recommendations pages. You can also sign up here to get email alerts every time I write a new post. Thanks for reading!

Comments

  1. Lisa @ Thriftability says

    December 22, 2012 at 3:23 pm

    Great quotes and positive message! Since getting married & honeymooning in August, then moving to another state with my husband – followed by the holidays appearing seemingly out of nowhere, I have been reminding myself daily to slow down and appreciate the world around me. Thanks for your thoughts – good (calm) points in your post!

    Reply
    • Sydney says

      December 22, 2012 at 5:03 pm

      Wow Lisa you HAVE been busy this year! Moving is always tough. It’s crazy how much stuff we accumulate, and it really shows when we start packing things up.

      Hope you have a nice and calm last week of 2012!

      Reply
  2. 101 Centavos says

    December 22, 2012 at 8:49 am

    Good collection of quotes to start the day. Liked the one from George Burns. I just picture him delivering it, cigar in hand, and a droll smile.

    Reply
    • Sydney says

      December 22, 2012 at 5:01 pm

      Thanks. Yeah I like that one too! I hope we all make it healthy to 100 and beyond!

      Reply
  3. Brick By Brick Investing | Marvin says

    December 21, 2012 at 5:11 pm

    Great posts and great quotes to bring in the new year!

    Reply
    • Sydney says

      December 22, 2012 at 5:00 pm

      Thanks Marvin! I’m literally counting the days and hours until 2013 now. It’s mind boggling how fast these last two months have gone.

      Reply
  4. Financial Samurai says

    December 21, 2012 at 9:26 am

    Love the quotes! A soul with a body, not a body with a soul!

    The most important things in life are not things indeed.

    Thanks for the quotes! With the fiscal cliff about to obliterate us all again, I feel inspired! 🙂

    Sam

    Reply
    • Sydney says

      December 22, 2012 at 4:59 pm

      You’re quite welcome Sam! Yeah, I know. I’m not looking forward to the changes coming to our economy and the stock markets either. Things could get very ugly and we need to be prepared, and really focus on the positives in our lives.

      Reply
  5. Kevin @ Invest It Wisely says

    December 21, 2012 at 8:26 am

    All of the seasons inspire me — spring with all of the flowers and bees, summer with the sunshine, fall with the changing of the colors, and winter with the gently falling snowflakes and crisp, clear air. I’m not rich or otherwise special in some way, but I feel quite happy in general, and really fortunate I’ve gotten to where I am. I wasn’t always so fortunate, and those memories are pretty much the only personal source of sadness for me today, but now I try to focus on where I can help and make a difference, and that always makes me feel better. 😉

    Hope you have great holidays ahead, Sydney!

    Reply
    • Sydney says

      December 22, 2012 at 4:57 pm

      I draw a lot of inspiration and peace from nature as well. I had a really rough day yesterday, so I took a short hike today and felt so refreshed afterwards. It helps put things in perspective and reminds me that there’s so much more to life than just work and money.

      Hope you have a wonderful holiday too Kevin!

      Reply
  6. Edward Antrobus says

    December 20, 2012 at 11:59 am

    Your parents like to receive photos and you like to take them; that works out pretty well for both of you!

    Reply
    • Sydney says

      December 20, 2012 at 10:45 pm

      Yeah it is fortunate! Most of the pictures I end up sending them weren’t actually taken by me when I’m in them, but I do like to share other pictures from my travels and activities.

      Reply
  7. krantcents says

    December 20, 2012 at 9:06 am

    My best inspiration comes when I don’t expect it. It is when I out riding my bicycle or reading a magazine. It seems as though it is always when I am not working or thinking, it comes to me. I should do more of this!

    Reply
    • Sydney says

      December 20, 2012 at 10:42 pm

      I can see that. Unexpected surprises and moments of inspiration can be really moving. I find observing random acts of kindness to be inspiring myself. Just the other day I saw a stranger help a blind woman cross the street in a construction zone. Even though it’s something so simple, it’s nice to see there are good people in the world who are kind and helpful to complete strangers who need a hand.

      Reply

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