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Top 10 Quotes From The Wear Sunscreen Speech

October 3, 2011 By Sydney 11 Comments

Remember the graduation speech that turned into a song back in the late 90’s?  You know that “Wear Sunscreen” speech, aka “Everybody’s Free (To Wear Sunscreen)”?  Well, it wasn’t actually a real graduation speech.  It was an essay written by a woman named Mary Schmich that was published by the Chicago Tribune in 1997.  She used her wisdom at the time to write what she would have read as a speech if a school had asked her to be a commencement speaker.

Even though she didn’t actually read it at a graduation when she wrote it, her “speech” became a HUGE hit, although not many people were/are aware she’s the author behind it.  A lot of that was due to an urban legend that spread around claiming Kurt Vonnegut had written it for an commencement speech at MIT.

Mary ended up publishing an adaptation of the essay as a gift book and also gave permission to Buz Luhrmann, an Auzzie film director, to use her text in a song.  Luhrmann had it remixed to Rozalla’s “Everybody’s Free (To Feel Good)” which was part of the soundtrack to William Shakespeare’s Romeo + Juliet, the movie Luhrmann directed featuring Claire Danes and Leonardo DiCaprio.  Remember that?!

Nostalgia & Motivation

Anyways, I have a lot of memories associated with the lyrics of the wear sunscreen song.  And the older I get, the more the words stick with me.  It’s a favorite in my ipod and one of my go to tracks whenever I want a pick me up or a motivational boost.

Now without further ado, here are my top 10 favorite quotes in the order they appear, along with some of my notes.

“The real troubles in your life are apt to be things that never crossed your worried mind; the kind that blindside you at 4pm on some idle Tuesday.”

So often we get caught up about petty things and lose sight of the big picture.  My blindsided moment came on what had been an uneventful Friday up until 6:14pm when my dad called and told me he had cancer.  I was not prepared for that.  Fortunately he found out early and is on the road of recovery now.  I still try to remind myself how my priorities changed in that minute though because it helps me stay humble and continually count my blessings.  Life is precious, we must all remember that.

“Do one thing everyday that scares you.”

It took me a while to understand the power of this quote.  No, it’s not talking about doing something violent or illegal, but about taking risks!  Challenge yourself and try new things.  I used to be a total wimp but once I started letting go of my fears and taking risks, my life changed completely!

“Don’t waste your time on jealousy; sometimes you’re ahead, sometimes you’re behind…the race is long, and in the end, it’s only with yourself.”

Priceless.  Jealousy is so sneaky and can easily devour all of your courage, happiness, and dreams if you’re not careful.  We have to focus on improving our own weaknesses and breaking our own records and limits to truly make progress and find happiness in ourselves.

“Don’t feel guilty if you don’t know what you want to do with your life…the most interesting people I know didn’t know at 22 what they wanted to do with their lives, some of the most interesting 40 year olds I know still don’t.”

I used to listen to this over and over, esp. when I was in college and after I moved out to San Francisco.  It used to frustrate me that college created more questions in my mind when I was searching for answers.  I wanted a neon light bulb to illuminate and present me with a crystal clear career path.  That never happened.  Once I accepted that it’s OK not to know everything and to go seek out and try new things, I stopped worrying and started taking action.

“Be kind to your knees, you’ll miss them when they’re gone.”

Oh man.  The truth in this quote didn’t hit me until the last few years.  While I realize my body is still quite young, I already feel aches, pins, and pangs in my knees.  I had my knee give out on me a few times when I tried to run up the stairs 2 at a time in my late 20’s – ouch.  Now I do knee exercises several times a week to help keep them strong.

“Maybe you’ll marry, maybe you won’t, maybe you’ll have children, maybe you won’t, maybe you’ll divorce at 40, maybe you’ll dance the funky chicken on your 75th wedding anniversary…what ever you do, don’t congratulate yourself too much or berate yourself either – your choices are half chance, so are everybody else’s.”

This has always brought me comfort and makes me smile.  My parents divorced when I was young and it made me scared of getting married for the longest time.  We never know what tomorrow will bring so we need to live in the moment.  Right now I’m not ashamed to admit I have no idea if I want to have kids someday.  That used to worry me so much until I learned to embrace the unknown.

“Understand that friends come and go, but for the precious few you should hold on.”

It’s sad a lot of times when we grow apart from our friends, but that’s life.  Our interests change, our lives change, and our friends change.  I have a few really close friends that truly are precious that I feel connected with even when we are thousands of miles apart.

“Travel.”

Traveling is my outlet, my inspiration, my way of staying sane.  I stopped spending money on new clothes and random stuff because the thrill fades very fast.  Travel memories and adventures last a lifetime.

“Don’t expect anyone else to support you. Maybe you have a trust fund, maybe you have a wealthy spouse; but you never know when either one might run out.”

I like this one because it emphasizes the importance of being independent and prepared.  My parents have always had money problems so I knew pretty early if I wanted to live comfortably on my own I needed to do well in school, get a good job, and build my savings.  It’s kept me on my toes, helped me stay frugal, and given me freedom.

“But trust me on the sunscreen…”

I never leave home without it!

Untemplaters, what were doing when this speech/song became popular?  Do you have favorite quotes from it or remember the commencement speech from your own graduation?

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About Sydney

Hi there, I’m Sydney! After ten crazy years, I left a grueling six-figure job in 2015 for a better life. Now I spend my days with my family, writing, freelancing in various capacities, and finding new ways to stretch my brain. I’m crazy about my husband and two kids, gardening, photography, hiking, and stopping to smell the roses. Untemplater is where I share my insights and adventures with the world. I'm continually motivated to write and evolve in hopes that I can help others improve their lifestyles, careers, wealth and happiness. Every day is a gift! Be sure to check out my how to start a blog and Untemplater recommendations pages. You can also sign up here to get email alerts every time I write a new post. Thanks for reading!

Comments

  1. Rick Weller says

    April 23, 2018 at 10:36 pm

    that was ed cuffles final words before his execution on “millennium” in 1998. “wear sunscreen” lol

    Reply
  2. Eric J. Nisall says

    October 6, 2011 at 5:10 am

    “Don’t expect anyone else to support you.”

    That one really hits home since I’m probably not going to be getting social security, while my time working in banking saw tons of retirees piling into the branch on the 3rd of the month waiting to transact on their social security checks. I believe it’s always best to be self-reliant regardless of if you have social security or a trust fund, or a husband/wife who makes decent money.

    Reply
    • Sydney says

      October 6, 2011 at 6:29 pm

      I hear ya on social security. They should let us stop having to pay into it so we can put our hard earned money to better use!

      Reply
  3. Sam says

    October 3, 2011 at 5:22 pm

    Yeah, at least once a week or month. I donno about everyday. Maybe calling / emailing someone new once a day might count!

    Not too much scares me anymore. Seriously, what’s there to be scared about?

    Reply
    • Sydney says

      October 3, 2011 at 6:39 pm

      That totally counts. Nice to hear you’ve gotten over most of your fears! I still get scared of spiders, especially when I walk through a spider web by accident and start imagining a spider crawling all over me lol, or see one crawling around indoors somewhere. Yuk! I don’t think I’ll be making friends with spiders anytime soon.

      Reply
  4. Marie at FamilyMoneyValues says

    October 3, 2011 at 12:22 pm

    12 years is but the blink of an eye!

    Reply
    • Sydney says

      October 3, 2011 at 6:31 pm

      Time really does fly. It’s gonna be 2012 before we know it, crazy! Now that we’re in 4th quarter I’m rechecking my list of resolutions and goals to get a few more things accomplished.

      Reply
  5. MoneyCone says

    October 3, 2011 at 7:31 am

    What a lovely post! The quotes are absolutely golden!

    Hardest for me would be “Do one thing everyday that scares you.” Need to work on that, if not everyday, at least once a week! Gotta start somewhere, right?!

    Reply
    • Sydney says

      October 3, 2011 at 7:47 am

      That’s a good one. I aim for once a week too. 🙂 Every day is a rather tough! I’m constantly pushing myself to attack my harder, bigger, “scarier” projects first instead of putting them off until after I get through the easy stuff. Have a great week MC!

      Reply
  6. Financial Samurai says

    October 3, 2011 at 6:57 am

    Oh wow…. has it been 12 years since that speech and song? I can’t believe time has gone by so quickly.

    Knees! I wish I had my knees from 12 years ago!

    I flossy at least two times a day… that’s a necessity!

    Need to stretch more……..

    Dance……… I had so much fun trying to learn the Shuffle last month.

    Damn, we did look good so long ago.

    I love kickstarting the week to this!

    Reply
    • Sydney says

      October 3, 2011 at 7:46 am

      I know, it’s crazy that it was so long ago. I like the quotes you picked out Sam! There are so many great ones in the speech. I feel ya on the knees, it’s nuts. I need to start taking some of those joint supplements! That’s awesome you were trying to learn the Shuffle. Now I’m gonna have that song in my head all morning. 🙂

      Reply

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