At the age of 40, I unexpectedly discovered I'm autistic. I never suspected I had autism growing up. Frankly, we knew a lot less about it back then. Even if my parents had suspected I was autistic, I likely would have been dismissed by doctors and sent home just labeled as "shy" because of my gender. That, or perhaps misdiagnosed with something else like social anxiety. … [Read more...]
How To Engineer Your Layoff Book Review: Best Severance Negotiation Strategies
It's not very often you can say a book changed your life. But that's just what happened to me when I read How To Engineer Your Layoff: Make A Small Fortune By Saying Goodbye written by Sam Dogen of Financial Samurai. It changed my life for the better, forever. It was a very profitable use of my time, and has returned at least 1,500 times more than the cost. The book is … [Read more...]
A New Day, A New Dawn, & I’m Feeling Good
Every new day brings a new dawn. And with it come limitless possibilities. Yet, all too often we get in our own way or lack the focus and determination to seize those opportunities. I certainly am guilty of this and have no-one to blame but myself. This year I'm hoping to feel more content and relaxed at the end of every day. Happiness is progress after all. I got way too … [Read more...]
Making The Most Of What You Have In The Moment
Is your mind constantly racing? Do you feel like you're always chasing after time or wanting more? I go through thoughts like this often myself, but I'm working on finding greater contentment and calm. When I feel unsettled, I try and take just 1-2 minutes to close my eyes. In that brief pause, I think about making the most of what I have in that moment. There is a famous … [Read more...]
Out With The Old And In With The New
We've officially crossed over into 2021 and I think we're all happy to say, “Out with the old and in with the new!” I don’t know about you, but 2020 sure wiped me out. I’m a bit fried both physically and mentally. Thank goodness I have the most amazing family to keep me going! Most nights last year I woke up at least twice to nurse and soothe my baby girl. Sleep … [Read more...]