Comments on: How to Fall in Love

By: Shr

Shr — Tue, 30 Mar 2010 14:47:22 +0000

That is honestly simple, yet extremely elegant writing. I am totally blown away with how well you summarized the seemingly complex — Thanks for sharing and inciting a browsing non-participant to feel the urge to share back!
Merci=)

By: Ibrahim | TwentiesLife.ocm

Ibrahim | TwentiesLife.ocm — Mon, 01 Feb 2010 17:11:43 +0000

Wow, this was brilliant. I wrote an article titled “How to Find the Guy or Girl of your Dreams” (here http://ow.ly/12CSK) which was all about the logistics of love, but this is so much more passionate and heartfelt. Your writing is impressive. It struck me to the core. Kudos to you!

By: Cody McKibben

Cody McKibben — Thu, 14 Jan 2010 09:59:52 +0000

Wow Nicole, this is incredible. Thanks for the insight into a woman’s mind. When you put it that way, dating really is awesome, isn’t it?

By: floreta

floreta — Thu, 14 Jan 2010 00:14:48 +0000

i love it when you write like this. they’re the best! and soo eerily spot on

By: Nicole Antoinette

Nicole Antoinette — Wed, 13 Jan 2010 19:41:40 +0000

You’re making an enormous amount of sense – and sharing our personal experience is all we can really do, right?

Also, I’m thinking I’d like to get your first paragraph made into a t-shirt.

By: Mike Key

Mike Key — Wed, 13 Jan 2010 19:27:33 +0000

Here is a little tip for men, PURSUE HER. Women want to know that you want them. And not sexually. They want to know that you want them emotionally, and mentally. Pursue her heart, her mind, chase after her. Romance her. Invest in her. Every woman’s desire is to be know. She wants to know that you know her. Do you know all of her likes, do you know her tastes, her dreams, her desires? And what do you do with that knowledge?

I also have to disagree with the sex and more sex part. I have found that sex and a lot of sex can often create a false sense of connection and false love when there is none there to begin with. At least in the beginning of a relationship. People start having sex on their first and second dates and think they are in love. But emotions are fleeting and we as human beings are, well fickle.

Loving someone isn’t an emotion. I love pizza and ice cream and my wife? Love is action, I love my wife everyday, even when I get mad at her, I love her. And I choose to put her before myself. She makes feel the emotion of love, but not always.

I don’t know if I’m making any sense, but I just wanted to convey some personal experience.

By: Vinay

Vinay — Wed, 13 Jan 2010 11:49:04 +0000

Hehe nice post. However in my opinion, the sex and more sex is the other memorable part besides the hook and break up!

My favourite part is the hook up. But I dread the talk… I have written – but not yet published – an entire post on the DTR (determine the relationship) talk

By: Ronnie

Ronnie — Wed, 13 Jan 2010 09:47:50 +0000

Very entertaining post! I love how your writing is brutally honest yet hilarious…just have one question. Is this a post more geared for women on how to fall in love? Or both men and women?

Definitely agree with much of your post though. KEY is listening, and in a sense, sacrificing. Can’t agree more with pushing each other and you hella hit it head on; having it where love is a verb and not a noun

By: Ian Nuttall

Ian Nuttall — Wed, 13 Jan 2010 06:25:44 +0000

Maybe I should clarify…

By studies, what I actually mean is that I have eaten copious amounts of cheesecake my entire life. New York style cheesecake, chocolate cheesecake, strawberry cheesecake, lemon cheesecake, toffee cheesecake and so on and so forth.

I must be the best repeat customer the cheesecake shop ever had. In fact, this article kind of describes my lifelong love affair with cheesecake. And guess what? Even though it’s only 6.24am, I now want (and subsequently will go out of my way to get) cheesecake.

Oh and cookies? I think we’re being hoodwinked by people less awesome than us…