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Dariane Nabor

The Stuff Project

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We all have stuff. Some more than others. But what do you do when the stuff you have begins to overtake your life? Literally?

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Ask the Readers: What will you regret not doing in your life?

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This question is for those of you who are hanging out on the periphery, lurking and observing from a distance what this whole ‘Untemplater’ thing is all about.

Ask the Readers: How much of life is your career?

By Dariane Nabor on April 30th in Untemplate 8 comments

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I’ve asked myself what I should do with my life a bajillion times before and I’m sure I will ask it at least a bajillion times more. But I wonder how much of my answer will be about my career choice versus my overall lifestyle choice. Should your life be defined by your career?

Ask the Readers: What solutions are you looking for?

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What challenges are you facing right now to embark on or maintain an untemplate lifestyle? What kinds of pains are you dealing with right now that you are looking to solve?

Ask the Readers: How did you take the Untemplater leap?

By Dariane Nabor on April 16th in Untemplate 7 comments

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Some Untemplaters experience a point in their life where “the template breaks them,” makes them unhappy enough to desire a new lifestyle. Did you have a breaking point? What was it like?

Ask the Readers: What will your legacy be?

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Since I’ve been involved in Untemplater I’ve asked myself many times: “How often are my decisions based on my own personal needs or desires? How often are my decisions based on other people’s desires or expectations of me?” But as they say, no man is an island. Everyone is connected.

Ask the Readers: What advice do you give?

By Dariane Nabor on March 26th in Untemplate 6 comments

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People confide in each other and we try to give advice where it’s needed. Sometimes I begin to notice that I’m saying the same things over and over to different people. Other times, I’m the one asking a number of people for advice and I hear the same message from each person. Have you experienced either of these situations?

Ask the Readers: Untemplater Suggested Reading

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The other day I tagged along with my boyfriend for a day-long business trip. I found myself in an unfamiliar city with a whole day to explore and/or get some work done.  I wound up starting my day at a coffee shop at one end of a large shopping center and ended my day at

Untemplater Weekend Reading

By Dariane Nabor on March 13th in Untemplate 3 comments

Every Saturday on Untemplater we point our readers to our favorite posts of the week. These are some reads that are either very related to the untemplate message or just plain awesome stuff. Check ‘em out: Are you Part of the 17 Percent? – Maren Kate at Escaping the 9 to 5 Kurt Vonnegut claimed

Ask the Readers: What tools do you use?

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In a previous post, we talked about the key ingredients in being an untemplater. People mentioned things like being unhappy and having a breaking point, having courage and being introspective. If these are the things that make a person an untemplater, what are some tools the untemplater uses to carry out the lifestyle? Here are